Heal your relationship

Gloria has worked extensively with couples interested in or already engaged in diverse sexual expression — including fetishists, BDSMers, poly people, and swingers. Most commonly, couples come to Gloria because their interests create conflicts in their existing relationships. It is not uncommon for kink-oriented or fetishistic people to end up struggling with the challenges of being sexually unconventional. Sometimes the problem is their own guilt and shame over their needs; sometimes, it is their partner who is unwilling or unable to indulge their erotic needs; and sometimes, they just need mentoring or informed and experienced advice on how to make a kinky relationship thrive.

As the world’s leading expert on BDSM/fetish, Gloria has shown thousands of adults how to make positive changes in their marriages and primary relationships. She has helped couples reverse the tide of negativity and find new ways to experience intimacy and joy together.

Don’t Despair: Repair.

Gloria has rescued thousands of relationships from falling apart over sexual secrets and incompatibilities.

 

Break the negative cycle

Whether you are binging on porn, cheating on your partner or putting yourself in high-risk situations in order to act out your fantasies, negative behaviors feed on each other and spiral out of control during times of stress. The cycle can make you hate yourself and begin to doubt yourself. That negativity doesn’t stop with fights or anger at home; it fans out into your ability to function at work and in life!

Gloria knows there is a better way. She will help you build a healthier new foundation and a vision for a brighter future. She will improve your understanding of yourself and your needs and teach you how to ask for more from sex and from life — and how to get it too. Her intuition and knowledge can help you steer clear of landmines and hit the target every time. Stop the negative cycle that is destroying your sense of self and let Gloria show you the path to inner peace.

 

Make it consensual or go

Are you confused about consent? Did you say yes when your soul said no? Or did you say no to a partner who didn’t respect your boundaries?

Gloria’s grasp of the importance of mutual consent and her advocacy of consensual adult sex, no matter the relationship dynamic or gender of the individuals involved, can save your life.

No one deserves to be tied down to a partner who can’t give them the love and respect they deserve. Gloria will help you define what consent means to you, how to build hard boundaries and stick to them, along with how to get more out of the relationship you have by teaching you how to negotiate an intimate, sexually fulfilling lovelife — and how to walk away when your partner won’t work with you towards that goal.

 

Mentoring

With an unparalleled understanding of power dynamics and the problems that arise in BDSM/fetish relationships, Gloria can guide you to make the choices that create better experiences and deeper bonds with your partner(s). A long-time Internet fount of sexual wisdom, Gloria saves the best of the best of her techniques and advice for her clients. And as one of the founders of the contemporary BDSM scene, she can help you avoid missteps, resolve typical BDSM problems, work on the self-esteem and other questions that arise from BDSM life. . No matter how unusual or extreme, or how common and mild, Gloria will have ideas and reliable information on how to take your erotic life to the next level.

Regardless of your self-label in the BDSM/fetish spectrum, Gloria can help you achieve your kink/fetish potential in safe, loving, and emotionally satisfying ways.

Advanced BDSM/Fetish Work

Woman in leather.Developing a framework for your kink or fetish identity is an advanced level of BDSM inner work. This wholistic approach to BDSM/fetish life satisfaction factors in your career choices, your lifestyle choices, how you organize your time for intimacy and/or BDSM/fetish play, and how to create and maintain partnered love and commitment over the long-term.

For doms, this may mean bouncing around ideas, redefining their style or goals, and learning how to push themselves and their partners to the next level of satisfaction. For subs, it might means re-evaluating your relationship goals, finding out what may be holding you back, and developing new and better skills to help you get more of what you crave. And for fetishists, it could be building the self-confidence and esteem to find partners who share the same desires.

This type of work is best suited to people who want to delve into the depths of their own kink identities.

Don’t Despair: Repair.

The BDSM journey has challenges. Many people think that once they start doing the acts, everything will change for them. This is not true: the changes don’t come from the outside in, but the inside out. Adapting to new ways of looking at sex and relationships, and developing new expectations and new boundaries, are critical parts of the BDSM growth process, along with self-examination and self-acceptance. Gloria’s brand of BDSM mentoring clears the road for you to identify and reach your real destination along this journey.

 


Learn More

Want to read more about BDSM first? Read Gloria’s acclaimed books on the science and reality of BDSM/fetish sex.

Different Loving: the classic academic work which introduced BDSM/fetish to the mainstream as a loving, positive mode of sexual expression

Different Loving Too: the long-awaited follow-up explores BDSM in the 21st century and follows the 20+ year journeys of original interviewees

Sex for Grown-Ups: a sex science-based primer for the 21st century, and the first book to acknowledge BDSM, fetishes, polyamory, and transgenderism as normal.

Come Hither: an upbeat introduction for newcomers to help them assess their interest in kink and guide them to make good choices when they explore the worlds of BDSM/fetish.

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