Help! My Vagina Has a Mind of Its Own!

“But I love him,” Madelyn said. “But he isn’t good to you anywhere but in bed,” I said. “And not even always then?” “I know,” she said. “I know….” I waited for more. “But I love him. I just do.” “I know. But, look, you’ve given me a long rational list of his flaws. Now…


Weird Sex Science Facts: Every Vagina Smells Different

NOTE: this article is specific to cis-women who have a cervix and uterus.   If you know a woman with a vagina or have one yourself, you still may not have realized that every vagina has its own unique fragrance. If you have a keen sense of smell, you may have already noted that while every vagina has…


Three Steps to Sexual Self-Empowerment: Reclaiming Your Authentic Potentials

Sexual self-empowerment is the process of overcoming the negative cultural training and learning to exploit your authentic sexual potentials   I wrote yesterday how none of us are immune to the near-global cultural negativity about male genitals. No matter where you come from, the lessons you probably learned about your genitals (unless you were fortunate enough to…


2 Tips to Sex Yourself Up With Sleep

If you’ve been hoping for a good excuse to add some more sleep-time to your schedule, here’s some happy news. A huge new study of older women shows that the better the quality of their sleep the better their sexual performance. Though this study focused on older women, we all know that even in your…