You Answered These 3 Questions about BDSM — Poll Analyses

Keeping my promise to you that I’d revisit the polls I’ve run on this site, I decided to take a close up look at 3 of the 10 BDSM Polls featured here in April in case you haven’t had a chance to keep up with the stats coming in. First, an interesting background note: over 1000 people peeked…


10 Reasons why Criminalizing Teen Horniness is A Horrible Idea

While you were watching the Comey hearings, the lower house of Congress, the US House of Representatives, snuck through a vote which would impose mandatory sentencing of up to 15 years if minors try to sext each other. If you follow me on social media, you know I’ve been ranting about the unfairness, if not…


7 Scary Bizarre Side-Effects of Orgasms

Most of the time, for most people, orgasms follow the same predictable patterns. You start to feel a little turned on, you get moist and warm, then you get hot and wet, and before too long, you get to that ecstatic transcendent O. Once it is over, you feel relaxed and relieved. But biological diversity…


Labiaplasty and Our Twisted Relationship With Our Beautiful Genitals

I’ve been thinking about labiaplasty lately. Not for myself. Just pondering the rising trend in women seeking out labiaplasty to make their genitals look less genital-esque. Having knives and stitches between my legs is territory I hope I never have to explore. I don’t want anyone cutting on my beautiful sacred spot, my happy button’s…


3 Ways People Screw Up BDSM Hook-Ups

While many people reserve their BDSM adventures to known entities — someone they’ve been dating or someone they live with — more and more Americans are just hopping on the Internet and hooking up for a night of outrageous fun with someone new. I won’t get into the long narrative you probably have heard from…


Therapy Notes: When The Heart Blinds The Mind

“But I love him.” “I can’t leave her. It would destroy her.” “I probably deserved it.” “I’m the only one who really understands him.” And the ever popular… “I made a commitment and I’m going to stick to my commitment no matter what.”   If you’ve ever tried to talk to a friend about leaving…


Weird Sex Science Fact: Some People Have Several Boobs

While most women worry if their breasts are too small or too big, some women just wish they had only had two of them. It’s no secret to doctors, but very few of us are aware that millions of Americans are hiding some sexy secrets under their clothes: they have more than two breasts. General…


Celebrate Masturbation Month with the 10 Most Important Reasons to Have Orgasms

In case you don’t read the Internet, May is Masturbation Month. In past years, I encouraged you to make the most of the merriness. This year (well, in addition to my guided masturbation exercise in the Male Empowerment series), I am bringing you science! SEX SCIENCE! Can there be a better argument for the world’s…


Start Lifting Your Libido with These Three Tips

Libido, sex drive, the urge to merge — whatever you may call it, one of the hardest nuts to crack in adult life is when your hunger for sex seems to decline or even vanish. It’s not something that only happens to middle-aged people. Losing your desire for sex is an equal-opportunity affliction that can…


How Much Do You Know About Orgasms?

What is sweeter to the human organism than an orgasm? Nothing. Literally, nothing, if you look at it from a biological perspective. The medical research on human orgasm over the past 20 years has yielded nothing but positive information about its benefits to human health, from its contribution to maintaining mental stability and staving off…