Help, My Penis is Bent: Diagnosing Peyronie’s Disease #urology #malesexualhealth

A reader contacted my FaceBook fan page the other day, asking if I could recommend some recourse for his bent penis. He was in his 20s and was freaking out. He was ashamed to have sex and fearful of his future. I told him it could be Peyronie’s and to get to a urologist asap….


Five Fun Penis Facts to Fortify Your Masturbatory Feast

If it’s still May (which it is), then you’ve still got a few days left to celebrate the end of Masturbation Month in style. Do it for your health! Do it for your sanity! Do it with a toy! Do it with a friend! Masturbation is the next best thing to … NOTHING. No, really,…


Patriarchy Ruins Men’s Lives and Keeps Them in Abusive Relationships

Patriarchy is as toxic for men as it is for women. It’s a point I make with male clients struggling with identity and a topic I dissect in my male empowerment series. Men today are suffocated and suppressed by the old anti-male standards, struggling to figure out what it even means to be a man…


3 Sex-Positive Strategies for Situational Softness

THE FIRST FAIL IS THE DEEPEST Louie had a date lined up with his biggest crush, MJ. He’d been trying to line it up for months. When MJ agreed to a dinner invitation, he was ecstatic. He spent hours picking out the perfect spot and spent his nights fantasizing about the date. He fantasized about sex…


Weird Sex Science Fact: 3 Reasons Why A 5″ Penis is a Sexual Advantage

Big dicks, hung hunks — we’ve all googled those terms. Unless I am the only one who has hunted down monster cock for purely scientific research purposes…? Nahhh! Yet, the giant D is as hot as is it rare. Only 15% of all men have organs larger than 7 inches and just a tiny 2% are bigger…


Pop-Up Penis Quiz!

Do you know anyone with a penis? If you said yes, you are hereby qualified to take this special Pop Up Penis Quiz. Mazel Tov, darling. Find out how well you really understand how the penis works, what makes it work, and learn a bunch of interesting facts about penis color, size and performance along…


5 Reasons Why Male Sexual Empowerment is Necessary

I’m a feminist who adores men. And because that sounds like a radical, statement in 2017, it’s time for feminists to grow up and embrace the fact that feminism does not exist so we can blame men for all our problems. Feminism exists because Western patriarchy has been a toxic mess of religiously uninformed cultural…


Weird Sex Science Fact of the Week: Why Balls are Crooked and Penises Hang Left

So you love someone with male genitals, or own a pair yourself, and have been wondering wtf up with balls? Why does one hang lower? And what up with the penis dangling to the left when limp? All over the Internet, men leave questions expressing fear and anxiety about perfectly normal variations in their genitals,…


Three Steps to Sexual Self-Empowerment: Reclaiming Your Authentic Potentials

Sexual self-empowerment is the process of overcoming the negative cultural training and learning to exploit your authentic sexual potentials   I wrote yesterday how none of us are immune to the near-global cultural negativity about male genitals. No matter where you come from, the lessons you probably learned about your genitals (unless you were fortunate enough to…


A Sex Therapist Tells All: The Time I Rescued Four Testicles

  Of all the successes I’ve had as a therapist, my work with two clients stands among my proudest achievements because I saved their testicles from the trash heap of sexual shame and obsession.   JEREMY’S STORY   Jeremy was a well-educated, articulate and very affable professional in his 40s. He was coming to me,…