ASK GLORIA: A Guide to Defining BDSM Power Roles and Labels

An advice column for adults coping with sex, gender or relationship issues.   Dear Gloria,  Can you explain the difference between a Dom and a Top, and who would care? signed, Topdown   Dear Topdown, Thank you. I’d love to. So first, a brief summary of how people approach BDSM altogether to help demystify the many…


ASK GLORIA: Fixing a Sexually Dead Relationship — BDSMers’ Adult Kids Are BDSMers

Welcome to “Ask Gloria,” an advice column for adults coping with sex, gender or relationship issues.     Dear Gloria, How do you rekindle sex when its gone out in your marriage? We have been together for 14 years. Our relationship was extremely sexual at the beginning but a combination of health issues, kids, military service (evil),…


ASK GLORIA: Porn-Induced ED — When Your Adult Child is Transgender

Welcome to “Ask Gloria,” an advice column for adults coping with sex, gender or relationship issues.     Dear Gloria, I know you’re an advocate of pornography and masturbation but I was curious what your thoughts are on porn induced erectile dysfunction. It’s a seemingly major growing problem, particularly in today’s youth. I was a virgin…


ASK GLORIA: Physically Cold After Orgasm — BDSM-Bashing Partner

Welcome to “Ask Gloria,” an advice column for adults coping with sex, gender or relationship issues.     Dear Gloria, After I climax, I get freezing cold…. any idea as to why? Is this normal? Do other people get it? Or is there something wrong with me? Frozen Princess   Dear FP, It’s not common but you…


ASK GLORIA: 50 Shades of Scared — Straight in a Gay Relationship

Welcome to the debut of my new advice column, “Ask Gloria,” a Friday special feature for adults coping with sex, relationship, marriage and gender issues.   Dear Gloria, I’ve been a fan of the 50 Shades book and finally met someone I think I could have a BDSM relationship with. He reminds of Christian Grey a…