The smartest device for your sexual health: UVee

  With the growing public concern about all kinds of bacteria and virii and flesh-eating zombie bugs (not a clinical term 😉 ) that can turn your life into a horror movie, sexual hygiene is more important today than ever in human history — and that means not just keeping our genitals fit and healthy but…


7 Must-See Funny BDSM Scenes in Movies

I’m always puzzled when I review “best BDSM movie lists” and find that some of my favorite scenes aren’t even listed. I guess each of us probably has glimpsed a whip or a corset or even bondage and spanking in films that stay with us for decades, even though they will, for a wide range…


Put Your Toys Away and Build Your BDSM Skills

I’m not saying there’s something wrong with toys. Heaven forefend. I would never ever tell you to get rid of them. Not the fragile latex that makes you glitter and shine, not the gleaming leather whip that makes you swoon nor the coldly glimmering cuffs and clamps that make sex so intense. Keep those favorite joy toys that…


As the Sex Swamp Oozes: Welcome to Hollywood

An old friend of mine, B, grew up to be a successful film director. He made some real good family fare, films that are still enjoyed decades later. Nice, clean, wholesome films. He himself was a nice guy, smart, unusually well-educated for the business, happily married too. While chatting one day, B opened up about the legendary…


90 Years of Same-Sex Kisses and 15 Must-See Movies

Romance is so not dead, at least not for LGBT people. Actors have been showing us the fun and pleasure of same-sex kissing almost as long as Hollywood itself has existed. 2017 marks 90 years since the very first gay kiss in Hollywood movies! It started with the 1927 film “Wings,” and has picked up incredible speed…


4 Things I Wish I’d Known About Relationship Sex as a Teen

It’s a difficult line to walk as a parent — when is it appropriate to tell your kids the real truths about sex? While we all may wish to stage sex ed to our pre-teen kids according to when we think they are ready — and maybe when we’re ready too, because of our own…


Lust Death: 7 Things that Kill Desire

So I posted a little story on my timeline yesterday about how I once watched a handsome actor on some tv interview show. At the time, I had a serious crush on him and thought he was as hot as Satan’s furnace. I was somewhat interested in what he had to say, but tbh was really…


How to Stop A Child Sex Predator

*flag: this article is explicit. victims of child abuse may want to skip* Every forensic tv fan (myself included! love Joe Kenda!) knows this old police chestnut: “before you look at the outlaws, look at the in-laws.” Its meaning is simple yet deep. Most perpetrators of violent crimes are people within the allegedly safe circles…


Never Mind BDSM 101 — We Need Sex Ed 101

*flag: this article is explicit. victims of child abuse may want to skip* In the BDSM Community, we talk a lot about taking those all-essential classes to learn how to keep ourselves and our partners sexually healthy, emotionally wealthy and BDSM-wise. From BDSM 101 to classes on even the most baroque fetish play, education is…


Sex Education is a Family Value

Do you ever think back to all the things you wish you’d known about sex or gender when you were growing up? Have you ever considered how different life would be if you always felt confident that your body was attractive enough to turn someone on? There were probably a litany of facts about sex…