The BDSM/fetish journey has inherent challenges. Many people think that once they start doing the acts, everything will change for the better. If only it did work that way! In reality, BDSM/fetish change requires new insights into your behaviors and deeper understanding of the joys that BDSM/fetish can bring you.

My brand of BDSM mentoring is caring, warm, and life-changing. It is also based on 30 years of experience with BDSM and fetish, personally and professionally. Make an appointment and I will guide you.

 

 

BDSM/Fetish Coaching and Mentoring

Did you ever wish you could talk to an experienced dominatrix? I don’t just talk the talk — I walk the walk. Married for 29 years to a fellow male kinkster and 17 years in a successful triadic relationship with a female kinkster, I have built an amazing life around BDSM relationships. Want to know how I did it and what I consider the keys to success?

Tap into my extensive knowledge of all things BDSM and fetish — and expect to get support, kinship and fresh ideas about your own needs and styles of play. Tell me your story and I will give you the tools and affirmation to move to the next step in your BDSM journey.

 

 

BDSM/Fetish Fun and Skills

Need ideas to make that BDSM date even hotter? Want to update your skill set? We all benefit from learning new techniques and building a repertoire of fun and games with BDSM and fetish. You’ve read my tips in hundreds of national magazines but imagine what you could learn by directly asking me how to create hotter, more intimate scenes with your partner(s) based on your own unique circumstances!

I tailor potential scenes and sensual BDSM experiences to you. From fresh ideas on structuring scenes and new techniques to long-term plans to get more joy out of your play and make you even more attractive to existing or potential partners, I will share my own best techniques for putting BDSM partners in the mood and projecting the attitudes that keep them coming back for more. Whether you want advice on using toys, how to keep it SSC/RACK, or how to create a night of pleasure you’ll never forget, ask about my BDSM Fun and Skills.

 

BDSM/Fetish Psychodynamics

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This type of work is best suited to people who want to delve into the depths of their own kink identities or who need the relief that only psychodynamic BDSM/fetish coaching can bring.

Are you happy in your life but still missing the BDSM/fetish dynamic that would help balance your life out? Together, we can explore your fetishes, explore your psychosexual potentials and give you relief.

Role-play is a proven way to relieve tensions. For some clients, it’s all the therapy they need, the missing piece in their personal lives. You can choose phone, email or SKYPE to ensure your own privacy.

As a long-time player, I possess a uniquely deep understanding of the psychology of kink. I have a particular gift for fetishes and power dynamics. Whether it’s deep conversations, behavioral modifications, or role-play, you can’t find a better ally in your BDSM journey.

Your confidentiality is absolutely guaranteed. All adults (21+) are welcome.

Make an appointment for a phone or SKYPE session, and let’s talk about how psychodynamics can help you.

 

Consent Counseling

Are you confused about consent? Did you say yes when your soul said no? Or are you worried that you may have committed an aggression? Today’s world is a very confusing place and few concepts are more confusing than consent issues. Sometimes we need to talk to someone who understands if and when lines were crossed.

I have advice for you if you’re in this situation. I can help you build better boundaries, to define consent, to identify when others overstepped a bound and how to take action to protect your own best interests. I will show you the power of self-love.

 


Learn More

Want to read more about BDSM first? Read Gloria’s acclaimed books on the science and reality of BDSM/fetish sex.

Different Loving: the classic academic work which introduced BDSM/fetish to the mainstream as a loving, positive mode of sexual expression

Different Loving Too: the long-awaited follow-up explores BDSM in the 21st century and follows the 20+ year journeys of original interviewees

Come Hither: an upbeat introduction for newcomers to help them assess their interest in kink and guide them to make good choices when they explore the worlds of BDSM/fetish.

Sex for Grown-Ups: a sex science-based primer for the 21st century, and the first book in the world to acknowledge BDSM, fetishes, polyamory, and transgenderism as normal.

 

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