How to Stop A Child Sex Predator

*flag: this article is explicit. victims of child abuse may want to skip* Every forensic tv fan (myself included! love Joe Kenda!) knows this old police chestnut: “before you look at the outlaws, look at the in-laws.” Its meaning is simple yet deep. Most perpetrators of violent crimes are people within the allegedly safe circles…


Never Mind BDSM 101 — We Need Sex Ed 101

*flag: this article is explicit. victims of child abuse may want to skip* In the BDSM Community, we talk a lot about taking those all-essential classes to learn how to keep ourselves and our partners sexually healthy, emotionally wealthy and BDSM-wise. From BDSM 101 to classes on even the most baroque fetish play, education is…


3 Simple Sexual Health Hacks

  There’s a kind of sexually transmitted disease that nobody talks about. While the big H diseases — HPV, Herpes, HIV — get a lot of press, the most common source of minor sexual health ailments is both the least understood among adults and gets the least preventive advice from physicians. These are bacterial infections…


Five Things About Sex That Apply To Every Human

When you think about sex education, you already know there’s a big difference between what minors should learn at different ages. You are not going to teach a toddler about the things you’d teach a kid entering puberty, while teens need a completely new and different knowledge set to cope with the realities of teenage…


Non-Consent Fucks Us Up (but you CAN change the world)

I post a lot of sex commentary on my FaceBook Page and try to focus on the positive news because, despite all the attempts to stifle candid sexual discussion in this political climate, the science of sex is alive and well, and brings inspiring headlines every day. All around us, there are new advances in…