Lust Death: 7 Things that Kill Desire

So I posted a little story on my timeline yesterday about how I once watched a handsome actor on some tv interview show. At the time, I had a serious crush on him and thought he was as hot as Satan’s furnace. I was somewhat interested in what he had to say, but tbh was really…


How to Stop A Child Sex Predator

*flag: this article is explicit. victims of child abuse may want to skip* Every forensic tv fan (myself included! love Joe Kenda!) knows this old police chestnut: “before you look at the outlaws, look at the in-laws.” Its meaning is simple yet deep. Most perpetrators of violent crimes are people within the allegedly safe circles…


Five Things About Sex That Apply To Every Human

When you think about sex education, you already know there’s a big difference between what minors should learn at different ages. You are not going to teach a toddler about the things you’d teach a kid entering puberty, while teens need a completely new and different knowledge set to cope with the realities of teenage…


Non-Consent Fucks Us Up (but you CAN change the world)

I post a lot of sex commentary on my FaceBook Page and try to focus on the positive news because, despite all the attempts to stifle candid sexual discussion in this political climate, the science of sex is alive and well, and brings inspiring headlines every day. All around us, there are new advances in…


Poll Sextravaganza — How Do You Measure Up?

GROWING is SO exciting! Just launched today, some new polling software that I was hungering for…um, like, my whole adult life! 🙂 In the next couple of weeks, I’ll do polls on scores of questions about your sex habits and choices. Relax: I guarantee your total anonymity on these. The data will not be used for…


A Sex Therapist Tells All: MASTURBATION IS CLEAN AND SO ARE YOU

We all do it. And most of us lie about it. We lie to our partners, our friends and ourselves. It’s as if an instinctive sense of shame or embarrassment gets so deep a grip on us that we can barely control the words that come out, even when we know we’re outright lying. Masturbation…


Make Your Date Night New and Memorable

You finally cleared your calendar, cleared your house, and cleared your life enough to have some precious time all alone with your special sexy someone. Yay, you! Those nights or weekends of coupled bliss can be hard to come by if you have kids or careers or both. But now that you’ve made that effort,…


How To Heal Your Heart After Your BFF Breaks It

Breaking up with your best friend is like a knife in the heart. Here’s advice on how to heal.


Resolve to End A Toxic Relationship If You See These 7 Signs

Make the healthiest resolution you can for 2017: Resolve to end an abusive relationship.