Why the Details of Your Fetish Matter Let’s Get into the Details “I have a foot fetish,” my new client, Ian, anxiously said midway through our first Share this:FacebookRedditTwitterLinkedInEmailMastodonLike this:Like Loading... Read More
Overcome Shame and Live In Your Body In my last blog post, Shame Was Ruining His Life: Damon’s Story, you learned about how shame can be an Share this:FacebookRedditTwitterLinkedInEmailMastodonLike this:Like Loading... Read More
Shame Was Ruining His Life: Damon’s Story “I feel so ashamed after I masturbate” Damon was the proverbial nice guy. Smart, savvy, nicely dressed, friendly, and polite. Share this:FacebookRedditTwitterLinkedInEmailMastodonLike this:Like Loading... Read More
I’m Here for You #winterblues #therapyduringholidays It’s been my annual custom on winter holidays to keep my doors open to anyone who needs to talk asap. Share this:FacebookRedditTwitterLinkedInEmailMastodonLike this:Like Loading... Read More
Managing Sub Drop Today let’s tackle one of the most problematic paradoxes in BDSM: that a submissive/bottom can be in ecstasy one minute Share this:FacebookRedditTwitterLinkedInEmailMastodonLike this:Like Loading... Read More
Deconstructing “Subs Have All the Power” “Subs have all the power.” If you’ve been in BDSM for a while, you’ve heard that a thousand times. It’s Share this:FacebookRedditTwitterLinkedInEmailMastodonLike this:Like Loading... Read More
5 Fallacies about BDSM Utter fallacies about BDSM. The world is full of them. Considering how many people have written about, studied, analyzed, attended Share this:FacebookRedditTwitterLinkedInEmailMastodonLike this:Like Loading... Read More
Can You Cure a Fetish? The first question my kinky clients ask is – “Can you cure my fetish?” Short answer: nope! Now, let’s look Share this:FacebookRedditTwitterLinkedInEmailMastodonLike this:Like Loading... Read More
Sexual Freedom Is Indivisible In his autobiography, Long Walk to Freedom, Nelson Mandela said that “Freedom is indivisible.” (scroll down for full quote and Share this:FacebookRedditTwitterLinkedInEmailMastodonLike this:Like Loading... Read More